What Defines Success For You?

A few minutes ago I was reading comments on a discussion group blog. The question was:

“What defines success to you? Do you experience any physical ’symptoms’ of success?”  I thought you might like to read my thoughts.

“Nina, thanks so much for starting this discussion. For me, success is the privilege of being allowed to live through my deepest held values. To live with integrity, service, courage, truth, love and also excellence is what success is all about for me.

More I work on “taming” my ego…

…letting go of outcome for the sake of doing the right thing, more I feel successful. Not for myself but for the betterment of the planet. I am because we are!

As I work with purpose-driven women entrepreneurs…

…all over the world who too want to stay true to their values but feel frightened by the economic hardships of this “crisis of trust”, I find my fulfillment and holding a strong arm out for them. Making products and services available at costs THEY can afford even if that means a bit less for me and my partner.

May you and all the readers find their definition of success and in my heart I hope that it will include the good of world.”

So, I have  a little bit more space here to expand.

It was such an interesting question because I had been pondering it for some time now myself.

How can I combine success for myself…

…with my deep wish for the well-being of others on this planet?  Can I or do I have to sacrifice my well-being for the well-being of others?

In the end, I believe it’s about our intentions more than anything.  I am still blogging on my business blog, I am still attending network meetings, I am still charging for my services…but I do it with all my intent on service, checking in with myself over and over to make sure that I have the best of YOU on my mind.

Only then can I be authentic and true to my values.

Leaving fear about my personal profit behind, having faith that when done right I will have built relationships for life.  Believing from the bottom of my heart that my “security” doesn’t sit in a bank account (as proven very clearly lately) but with those who I love, cherish and care for.

This is a hard concept for such a recovering “individualist” and yet brings warmth and peace to my heart,

Love to all of you
Christiane